"There are 2 kind of pain. Pain that make you stronger, and useless pain."
And the real character of a people is not shown when they enjoy victory, but how they face defeat.
--Francis Underwood-- House of cards
Hard road is not bad because it's hardness. It is bad, because people just face it with cursing its hardness. Hard road is not bad when you can show the road how much determination you want to change the status quo.
So, the pain in the hard road is make you stronger. Not just useless pain.
Other saying is: "what doesn't kill you make you stronger". I don't really believe in this saying. Because being alive is too much variable in play. Luck is big part of it. You can be born in the rich family and be protected until you dead. All of the hardship is being cleared by your parent wealth. So, the hardship doesn't kill you and doesn't make you stronger. Simply, because you're much to be lucky, protected by the wealth of your parent.
So, be positive. The hardship you face in every step of the way is pain that will make you stronger along the way.
The real character is also out on this hardship. The hardship is what make the adventure stunning. Make the life worth while. The love spring in the desert. When there is no hope, but be the best you can do and just let go of every attachment into the success. be the prepared without the boundary of failure.
The House of Cards series is pretty much teach me many thing in the character of people with power. character of people with much way to get what they want. Character that fight back in their on pace after defeat.
This series, is kind of series that can be watch many time without being boring. It give new understanding for me, in reading reality toward power in environment. How the boss show, and how they get and reach the power in an organisation.
for me, i don't know what this thing would be. But, I believe that pain is not in vain.
